“Thou art fairer than the children of men: grace is poured into thy lips: therefore God hath blessed thee for ever,” Psalm 45:2. If you see the context in which our verse is written, you will notice in verse 1 that it is speaking of the king: “My heart is inditing a good matter: I speak of the things which I have made touching the king: my tongue is the pen of a ready writer.” This speaking of the king is a prophetic insight that the psalmist had of the Lord Jesus Christ in His kingly position, and it points to that blessed condescension of that King in verse 2: “Thou art fairer than the children of men: grace is poured into thy lips.” He is seeing the overwhelming beauty in the grace and tender love that comes forth from the King of kings. Many of the Old Testament writers spoke of the blessedness of our lovely Saviour in a prophetic way as we see from Song of Solomon 5:16: “His mouth is most sweet: yea, he is altogether lovely. This is my beloved, and this is my friend, O daughters of Jerusalem.” We see such a beautiful parallel between this verse and our text. The writers see such preciousness and such beauty in the words of the King of kings and in His loving condescension. The love of God for His people is eternal, and that has been the source of drawing His people to Him from eternity. I want you to turn with me to Jeremiah 31:3: “The LORD hath appeared of old unto me, saying, Yea, I have loved thee with an everlasting love: therefore with lovingkindness have I drawn thee.” The Old Testament writers saw and understood what had been from the beginning. This was not a new exposition. It is an eternal love, and they see the blessedness in that eternal love of God. The word therefore shows that because of this everlasting love, He has drawn us with lovingkindness. It does not say that He has driven us. The Lord does not use the law as a whip to drive us to Christ. He draws us with the blessed revelation of that love. He does not drive us to Christ out of a slavish fear. The gospel has a drawing love. The love of God draws us to repentance. This is what gives us a different attitude. I saw a man one time who whip-broke a horse, and he could crack a whip one time in the corral and a horse out in the pasture would come running to him and stand there trembling. That is not how the Lord draws His people to Him. The Lord draws us with the everlasting love of Christ. Our blessed Saviour tells us how sinners are drawn to Him in John 12:31: “Now is the judgment of this world: now shall the prince of this world be cast out.” The prince of this world will no longer sit as king on the throne of your heart. The Saviour is showing us how He will accomplish this. Continuing in verses 32 and 33 we read: “And I, if I be lifted up from the earth, will draw all men unto me. This he said, signifying what death he should die.” Much more is to be understood here than just that we see His human body hanging on a tree. What death did He die? We read the answer in Romans 6:10: “For in that he died, he died unto sin once: but in that he liveth, he liveth unto God.” If we start to see the love that was in the ignominious death of our dear Saviour and how He died unto sin, then sin becomes exceedingly sinful. This is what has to be lifted up before our eyes—that tender love of God, of how He gave His Son, and that tender love of the Son, how He hung on the cross. It was not the nails that hung Him there. It was His love. These gracious lips of our Saviour are what makes Him “fairer than the children of men” to those who hunger and thirst after righteousness. He is pleading with His church. He is pleading with His lovely bride. He is telling them of His love. He is showing them how He was lifted up from the earth, and how He was hung there from a motive of love. This is what causes us to hunger and thirst after righteousness. You and I will never have enmity against sin by the whip of the law. We will only see the sinfulness of sin and have that hunger and thirst after righteousness as our eyes are opened to see the love of God. Amen. And can it be that I should gain An interest in the Saviour’s blood? Died He for me, who caused His pain? For me, who Him to death persued? Amazing love! How can it be That Thou, my God, shouldst die for me? Amazing love! How can it be? Charles Wesley, 1707-1788
He is not here: for he is risen, as he said. Come, see the place where the Lord lay (Matthew 28:6). Christ’s resurrection speaks to us of many things. The curse God pronounced upon Satan in the Garden of Eden proclaimed Christ’s great victory over death and the grave. Genesis 3:15 says: “And I will put enmity between thee and the woman, and between thy seed and her seed; it shall bruise thy head, and thou shalt bruise his heel.” In the resurrection of Christ, He crushed the head of Satan, gained that victory and destroyed the works of the devil. Yet to do this, Christ also had to be wounded. Satan’s head was crushed even though Christ’s heel, that is, His flesh, was bruised. Romans 4:25 says that Jesus “was delivered for our offences, and was raised again for our justification.” This was the war in heaven against that old serpent, which is the devil, the accuser of the brethren. All of his accusations have been crushed. These wounds of our lovely Saviour are the consolation of His church. We read in Luke 24:38-39: “And he said unto them, Why are ye troubled? and why do thoughts arise in your hearts? Behold my hands and my feet, that it is I myself: handle me, and see; for a spirit hath not flesh and bones, as ye see me have.” He used the wounds in His hands and feet to remove all fear, to remove all distress for His church. The resurrection of our Saviour is our assurance that the Father’s justice has been satisfied. We see the victory that has been gained over death and the grave. We are to be baptized into His death and raised to walk in newness of life. When we receive a faith’s view of those wounded hands, Christ’s resurrection becomes precious in a personal way. So often our sins rise up against us, and our thoughts trouble us. Then we must look to the wounds of His hands and feet. We read in Isaiah 49:16: “Behold, I have graven thee upon the palms of my hands; thy walls are continually before me.” The resurrection of Christ becomes a personal victory for us. He continually sees those names in the wounds of His hands and comes before the Father and pleads for His church on that basis. We see sin in its true light, and we see that blessed deliverance from sin, because He was delivered for our offenses. This makes sin so exceedingly sinful. For us to claim an interest in Christ’s resurrection we must also take part in His death. We must understand what we read in Romans 6:4-11: “Therefore we are buried with him by baptism into death: that like as Christ was raised up from the dead by the glory of the Father, even so we also should walk in newness of life. For if we have been planted together in the likeness of his death, we shall be also in the likeness of his resurrection: For in that he died, he died unto sin once: but in that he liveth, he liveth unto God. Likewise reckon ye also yourselves to be dead indeed unto sin, but alive unto God through Jesus Christ our Lord.” We must take part in His death if we are going to take part in His resurrection. This means death to sin, death to self, death to everything of this life. Then we will be raised in newness of life. Those who are in Christ find they are complete in Him. We read in 1 Corinthians 1:30: “But of him are ye in Christ Jesus, who of God is made unto us wisdom [that we see the sinfulness of sin], and righteousness [His imputed, imparted obedience], and sanctification [the work of repentance and cleansing], and redemption [from the penalty of sin].” Notice the order. We do not take part in His redemption apart from these other things. Through Christ’s resurrection He restored all for His church as David said, “then I restored that which I took not away” (Psalm 69:4b). The Lord Jesus Christ restored that state of purity, that state of sanctification. He restored what He did not take away. It was Satan who stole these things from us. What was taken away? That perfect image of God in our human nature, which was created for the glory of the Father. Jesus restored the true reflection of God's image in our human nature. We see in John 1:14: “And the Word was made flesh, and dwelt among us, (and we beheld his glory, the glory as of the only begotten of the Father,) full of grace and truth.” By becoming our substitute, Christ restored our righteousness in the sight of His Father. You and I had become sin, and He was made to be sin for us as we read in 2 Corinthians 5:21: “For he hath made him to be sin for us, who knew no sin; that we might be made the righteousness of God in him.” The resurrection of Christ restores our eternal inheritance, which was marred by sin. We see this in 1 Peter 1:3-4: “Blessed be the God and Father of our Lord Jesus Christ, which according to his abundant mercy hath begotten us again unto a lively hope by the resurrection of Jesus Christ from the dead, To an inheritance incorruptible, and undefiled, and that fadeth not away, reserved in heaven for you.” That inheritance that was marred by the fall of Adam was restored. The Lord Jesus Christ has restored all things for His church. That defilement that we brought on ourselves through sin, He has removed. Christ’s resurrection restored peace with God, “by the washing of regeneration, and renewing of the Holy Ghost” as we see in Titus 3:5. In the resurrection of Christ we can be conformed to the image of Christ. He has brought about the perfect character and image of God in our human nature, and we have the reflection of that so we might be conformed to the blessed image of Christ. We can be renewed by the washing of regeneration and the renewing of the Holy Ghost. Our priorities can be straight. Our affections can be set on things above. By the work of regeneration we can become a new man in Christ Jesus. To regenerate is to renew the heart by a change of the affections; to change the heart and affections from natural enmity to the love of God; to implant holy affections in the heart. This is what the Lord Jesus Christ purchased for us in His resurrection. The “washing of regeneration, and renewing of the Holy Ghost,” is the new birth by the grace of God; that change by which the will and natural enmity of man to God and His law are subdued, and a principle of supreme love to God and His law, or holy affections, are implanted in the heart. The resurrection of Christ is our assurance that the Shepherd was smitten to open a fountain for the watering of His sheep. We read that Jacob was going to see his uncle, and he found the place where the sheep were gathering, but a stone was on the well’s mouth. They had to wait till the man came to roll the stone away so they could drink. This typifies how the sheep, the flock of Christ, are hungering and thirsting after righteousness and they come to the well’s mouth but a stone covers it. In the resurrection of Christ, that stone was rolled away. Now the flock can come to that watering place. We read in Zechariah 13:1: “In that day there shall be a fountain opened to the house of David and to the inhabitants of Jerusalem for sin and for uncleanness.” That fountain is opened in the resurrection of Jesus Christ. The Shepherd, Jesus Christ, brings His flock, the church to this precious well. The thirsting after righteousness is satisfied. Salvation is twofold. The body of Christ, which is the bread of the Lord’s Supper, teaches us that the broken body of Christ points us to the satisfaction of the penalty of sin. The blood of Christ also points us to sanctification for cleansing. This thirsting after righteousness is thirsting after the cleansing from the power and pollution of sin. Christ’s resurrection teaches us that He first died and was buried. This is very important to His church; as our forerunner, Christ sanctified the grave as a holy resting place. We will all be taken from this life one day. As we are taken from this life, we will be laid in the grave, and if we have been sanctified, if our hearts have been cleansed, if the work of regeneration has been wrought in our soul, then we will be laid in a sanctified grave where our blessed forerunner has gone before us. We read in Isaiah 57:1b-2: “The righteous is taken away from the evil to come. He shall enter into peace: they shall rest in their beds, each one walking in his uprightness,” that is, those who have walked in uprightness “shall enter into peace: they shall rest in their [graves].” His soul will enter into peace. His soul will enter into heaven. The body will rest in that bed that was prepared and sanctified by Jesus, the firstborn among the dead, who has gone before us. Those who have walked in righteousness will enter into peace, and they will rest in their sanctified graves. This is what Christ has purchased for us, but we must notice that before He was raised, He had to be laid in the grave. Entering the grave comes first. If we are going to take part in His resurrection, we must take part in His death. Christ’s resurrection assures us that our bodies will rest in a sanctified place while our souls “enter into peace,” to await the reunion of our body and soul in the last day. John 11:25 says: “Jesus said unto her, I am the resurrection, and the life: he that believeth in me, though he were dead, yet shall he live.” If we believe Him, we will obey Him. The work of sanctification must be wrought in our souls. Our Saviour went before His church to the grave that all our fullness should be of Him. We are complete in Him. We read in Colossians 1:18-19: “And he is the head of the body, the church: who is the beginning, the firstborn from the dead; that in all things he might have the preeminence. For it pleased the Father that in him should all fulness dwell.” In His resurrection we are raised from the death of the grave and the death of sin. We are to be conformed to Christ’s image. Christ’s sanctification of the grave as a resting place for His church was foretold in the Old Testament burnt offerings. We read this in Leviticus 6:11: The ashes of the burnt offerings were to be carried forth “without the camp unto a clean place.” The ashes were what was left after the wrath of God devoured the sacrifice. In those remains we see the broken body of Christ. So it was with the ashes of the sacrifice that Christ made for sin, that is, His body was broken by the sword of God’s Divine justice. We see this in John 19:41-42: “Now in the place where he was crucified there was a garden; and in the garden a new sepulchre, wherein was never man yet laid. There laid they Jesus therefore because of the Jews’ preparation day; for the sepulchre was nigh at hand.” His body was laid in a clean place, which signifies that He has sanctified the grave for you and me. It is from there we will be resurrected and all sin and all flesh and all that is corrupt will be left behind. That new resurrected body will be perfect, and there will be no sin. Our Great High Priest offered Himself upon the cross where the fire of God’s wrath was poured out by the sword of His Divine justice to atone for His church. Christ’s resurrection is the assurance of His church that the Father accepted Christ’s sacrifice as payment in full; that His blood has cleansed away all sin and reconciled a Holy God with hell-deserving sinners. Our blessed Forerunner was the firstborn from the dead where He gained the victory over death and the grave as we see in Psalm 16:10: “For thou wilt not leave my soul in hell; neither wilt thou suffer thine Holy One to see corruption.” Jesus sanctified the grave and came out with a holy triumph. The holy triumph that Jesus Christ exclaimed over death and the grave has been cause for joy to His whole living church throughout all ages as we see in Revelation 1:18: “I am he that liveth, and was dead; and, behold, I am alive for evermore, Amen; and have the keys of hell and of death.” He is telling us of the tremendous crown He has gained as a victory over the grave. Oh beloved, let the enemies of the King of kings tremble and fear. We see in Matthew 28:2-4: “And, behold, there was a great earthquake: for the angel of the Lord descended from heaven, and came and rolled back the stone from the door, and sat upon it. His countenance was like lightning, and his raiment white as snow: And for fear of him the keepers did shake, and became as dead men.” The enemies of Christ will be made His footstool. They will be put under His feet. But let those whose enmity against God has been broken rejoice—those whose affections have been renewed and regenerated by the Holy Spirit. We read in Matthew 28:5-8: “And the angel answered and said unto the women, Fear not ye: for I know that ye seek Jesus, which was crucified. He is not here: for he is risen, as he said. Come, see the place where the Lord lay. And go quickly, and tell his disciples that he is risen from the dead; and, behold, he goeth before you into Galilee; there shall ye see him: lo, I have told you. And they departed quickly from the sepulchre with fear and great joy; and did run to bring his disciples word. And as they went to tell his disciples, behold, Jesus met them, saying, All hail. And they came and held him by the feet, and worshipped him.” There is nothing for us to tremble about if we are walking in the way of Christ. Those seeking Jesus were told to see where the Lord lay. See the sanctified grave, the grave over which He has gained the victory. His enemies fled in fear. Oh, what a blessing we see in the message of the angel as the friends of our Saviour stood at the empty grave: “He is not here!” He is not in the things of death. If we feel that the Lord has withdrawn Himself, then we must ask ourselves: “Where has He gone? Why has He departed?” It is because we are at the wrong place. We should not be among the things of death. He is not found in the soul of a dead sinner! He cannot be found in the soul-destroying pleasures of this world! If our hearts are set on the things of this earth, Christ will withdraw. We must be dwelling among the flock of Christ. He is not found in the workhouse of the self-righteous Pharisee, nor in the head knowledge of the puffed up scribe. We can come to where we think we are such authorities in the Word of God, but we find that the Lord is not there. He is not in a legal repentance of those who desire to escape the consequences of sin, but still love sin and trample on the blood of Christ. To all those the angel says, “He is not here: for he is risen, as he said.” If we want to dwell among the things of death, He is not here. We must look to a Jesus who has been lifted up. Then we see that after we have understood the sting of sin and the sting of the things of death, then our eyes are lifted above these things. Our eyes are lifted up to a crucified Christ, the crucified victor over death and the grave. What a blessing if we know what it is to find our lovely Saviour on the throne of His exaltation, when our eyes are lifted above the things of this life, to see a Saviour exalted above the things of death. I will show you where that throne is, and it is such a condescension. We see in Isaiah 57:15: “For thus saith the high and lofty One that inhabiteth eternity, whose name is Holy; I dwell in the high and holy place, with him also that is of a contrite and humble spirit, to revive the spirit of the humble, and to revive the heart of the contrite ones.” A contrite and humble heart is the throne of that risen Saviour. That is where He rules as prophet, priest and king. This to me is the most precious part of the resurrection of Christ—He has been exalted and is sitting as King of kings and Lord of lords. That throne has been established in the hearts of the humble and contrite. When we learn to bow before His throne we shall find peace for our souls. The kingdom of heaven is at hand. Enter it today. Enter into the service of the Lord so He may rule as King on the throne of your heart. We read in Matthew 11:28-30: “Come unto me, all ye that labour and are heavy laden, and I will give you rest. Take my yoke upon you, and learn of me; for I am meek and lowly in heart: and ye shall find rest unto your souls. For my yoke is easy, and my burden is light.” Those who are laboring under the heavy load of sin, those who are struggling against the powers of hell and sin and find that they have no might against this army, He tells them to come to Him and He will give them rest. He knocks at the door of our hearts and calls us to open the door and let Him in. He wants to rule our hearts. He wants a humble and contrite spirit and wants to sit on the throne of our hearts. He wants us to look up and worship Him. We learn that He is in the blessed image of God, reflecting the character of God in our human nature. He humbled Himself and became obedient to death, even the death of the cross. He is telling us to humble ourselves and become obedient to death, the death of all things of sin. He is telling us to learn of Him and to follow in His footsteps. He has become the express image of His Father. Now He wants us to be conformed to that image. Are we looking for a place to rest from the things of this world? Are we looking for Christ to set up His throne in our hearts? We do this by learning of Him. His yoke is easy because if we have labored under the heavy load of sin, then it becomes the delight of our hearts to do His will.
by John Piper
If the Bible addresses an issue with unrelenting frequency and urgency, and if that issue is one of the strongest natural forces in the world today, then ministers of the Word of God are obligated sooner or later to declare God's will on that issue. The sexual life of the unmarried person is of great concern to God. Even those of you who have not entrusted yourselves to Christ for salvation and do not love God, even you are obligated to obey what God has to say about your sexual desires. Though you rebel against his ownership, you are God's. He made you and has an absolute right to tell you what is good for you. He sent Jesus Christ into the world to overcome your rebellion and to make peace by the blood of his cross. And my prayer at the very outset is that you might turn from your rebellion and unbelief and disobedience, and that you might trust Christ for forgiveness and live for the glory of God.
Your Body Is Not Your Own Then I would be able to say to everyone in this room, do you not know that your body is the temple of the Holy Spirit, within you, which you have from God? You are not your own; you were bought with a price. So glorify God in your body (1 Corinthians 6:19, 20).
O, what an offensive word to our rebel human nature. The body in which you dwell is not yours to do with simply as you please. God bought your body from the curse of sin by the payment of his own Son, and now your body should serve one all-encompassing purpose: "Glorify, God in your body." As Paul said in Romans 6:12-14,
Let not sin therefore reign in your mortal bodies to make you obey their passions. Do not yield yourselves to sin as instruments of wickedness, but yield yourselves to God as people who have been brought from death to life, and your bodily parts to God as instruments of righteousness. For sin will have no dominion over you, for you are not under law but under grace.
God is concerned about what you do with your body. He created them, he bought them, he owns them, he indwells them, and what we do with them demonstrates to the world who our Lord is. If I were to stop here with this general admonition, our consciences would give us some guidance in specific cases, say, of whether we should smoke, or drink, or use drugs, or overeat, or never exercise, or get too little sleep, or engage in sexual relations outside marriage, or masturbate, or wear enticing clothing, or other things that misuse or abuse the body. But what our consciences approve and disapprove of is not always an accurate guide to what God approves of. Therefore, the Bible goes beyond the general admonition, "Glorify God in your body," to the more specific guidance, especially in the matter of sexual desires. So I aim to be more specific, too.
Why Did God Invent Sexual Desire? The question I want to start with is this: Why did God invent sexual desire? Before I try to answer that question from Scripture, let me define sexual desire. First of all, I am not including homosexual desires. Until I have a chance to preach on homosexuality I'll just say three things about it:
- If you are here and homosexual, I pray that you will not feel driven away, but will stay and seek help.
- The practice of homosexuality is sin; it is contrary to God's revealed will.
- Homosexual desires, like many other kinds of desires, are abnormal, and those who have them should seek through prayer, fellowship, and Christian counseling to be changed. It is not easy, but it is possible.
When I ask the question, why God created sexual desire, I have in mind that normal craving for sexual stimulation and intimacy that begins with early adolescence and continues, for some it seems, indefinitely, but for many mellows out into a less visceral craving but nevertheless real desire for personal and bodily intimacy. I acknowledge that in these years of sexual desire there are many people with very vigorous, and people with very mild, sexual desires. I don't mean to treat anyone along this continuum as better or worse than another. When I speak of those with sexual desires I refer to the vast majority of people who from their early adolescence have to deal one way or another with God-given sexual appetite.
Now, why did he create it? Let me give one brief answer and one expanded answer. The brief answer comes from Genesis 1:27, 28, "God created man in his own image, in the image of God he created him; male and female he created them. And God blessed them, and God said to them, 'Be fruitful and multiply and fill the earth and subdue it."' Since sexual desire aims finally at consummation in sexual intercourse, and sexual intercourse is the means that man and woman have of multiplying and filling the earth, therefore, I infer that one of the reasons God created us with sexual desire is to see to it that mankind would indeed fill the earth with people. And for some people procreation of children is the only justification for seeking gratification of sexual desires. But we will see in more detail next week, when we talk about sexual relations in marriage, that the apostle Paul has quite a different view.
A second answer to the question, why God created sexual desire, is found, I believe, in 1 Timothy 4:1-5,
Now the Spirit expressly says that in later times some will depart from the faith by giving heed to deceitful spirits and doctrines of demons through the pretensions of liars whose consciences are seared, who forbid marriage and enjoin abstinence from foods, which God created to be received with thanksgiving by those who believe and know the truth. For everything created by God is good, and nothing is to be rejected if it is received with thanksgiving, for then it is consecrated by the word of God and prayer.
In this text Paul is trying to help Timothy know what to say when false teachers arise (and there were some already at Ephesus) who teach that gratification of sexual appetite in marriage and the gratification of appetite for food should be cut back as far as possible. That means, abstain from marriage altogether and avoid unnecessary foods. It is no accident that Paul mentions marriage and eating together here and then treats them as one problem. Because the issue is really bodily pleasure, unnecessary bodily pleasure, whether through sexual stimulation or through eating food. The false teachers said, "Cut bodily pleasure to the minimum that will allow you to live."
Paul's response to this ascetic teaching is very plain in verses 4 and 5:
Everything created by God is good, and nothing is to be rejected if it is received with thanksgiving; for then it is consecrated by the word of God and prayer.
Why did God create sexual desire and sexual intercourse to satisfy it? Why did God create hunger and food to satisfy it? Verse 3 gives a very straightforward answer: "God created (these things) to be received with thanksgiving by those who believe and know the truth." All the unnecessary, innocent pleasures of life (and there are thousands of them) were created by God to be occasions for thanksgiving to God by those who believe and know the truth. The reason God created sexual desire and the event of sexual intercourse to satisfy it is not merely to fill the earth with people, but also to give another unique and exquisite occasion for the ascent of thanks from two hearts full of gratitude for God's gift of sexuality.
And let us not be deceived by the world. This gift was designed for believers and no one else. Look at verse 3, "God created these things to be received with thanksgiving by those who believe." By its very design it can only be for believers, because it is designed as an occasion for thanksgiving. But those who do not "know the truth"—the truth, namely, that God is the giver of all good gifts and worthy to be glorified and thanked—those who hold down this truth (Romans 1:18, 25) and do not trust in God cannot satisfy their sexual desires according to the design of God. All their sexual behavior is sin because it does not spring from faith in God (Romans 14:23) and does not result in thanks to God. Sexual pleasure belongs rightfully only to believers. All others are thieves and robbers. Don't ever let the world deceive you into thinking that we Christians are trying to borrow and purify a limited amount of the world's pleasure. God created sexual pleasure for his subjects alone, and the world has rebelled against him and stolen his gifts and corrupted them and debased them and turned them into weapons of destruction and laughed at those who remain faithful to the King and use his gifts according to his Word. But we will not be deceived. The gift is ours, and we will consecrate it, that is, we will keep it pure, as Paul says in verse 5, "by the word of God and prayer."
Since we believe that God designed sexual desire and that he gave it to us for our good (otherwise we wouldn't give thanks), we infer something that is completely reasonable, namely, that God knows how each of his creatures can make the most of this desire and that, therefore, his Word is an infallible guide to maximum sexual fulfillment. I said this is a reasonable inference. Only so if you really trust God. The world will laugh its head off at the thought that biblical restraints make for maximum sex. But if we believe that God is good and that in Christ he has forgiven all our sins, then we must believe that his words of guidance on sexual matters will bring us the greatest possible fulfillment, even if it means total abstinence.
Why Is Sexual Fulfillment Intended Only for Marriage? Now, what are his words of guidance to those who are not married? The Greek word from which we get "pornography" is porneia. In the New Testament porneia is translated as "fornication," "unchastity," or "immorality." Generally (though not always) it refers to sexual promiscuity of unmarried people. In Matthew 15:19 Jesus says, "Out of the heart come evil thoughts, murder, adultery, fornication." Here it stands side by side with adultery, adultery being the specific sin of sexual unfaithfulness in marriage, and fornication being the more general word covering illicit sexual relations for persons who are not married.
The New Testament as well as the Old condemns fornication, or sexual intercourse outside marriage, as sin. In Galatians 5:19 Paul lists it with the works of the flesh. In 2 Corinthians 12:21 he is ready to weep over those who have not repented of this sin. In Ephesians 5:3 he says fornication should never have to be named among Christians. In Colossians 3:5 fornication is first on Paul's list of things we should put to death in ourselves. And in Revelation 9:21 it is listed with murder, sorcery, and theft as things a hardened people would not repent of.
In 1 Corinthians 7:2 Paul says,
Because of temptation to immorality (i.e., fornication) each man should have his own wife and each woman her own husband.
Then he goes on in verses 8 and 9:
To the unmarried (men and women) and to the widows I say it is well for them to remain single as I do. But if they cannot exercise self-control, let them marry. For it is better to marry than to be aflame with passion.
The point I want to take from these verses is that, according to Scripture, all sexual intercourse before marriage is immoral. There are many man-centered moralists today who admit that indiscriminate sexual relations are wrong but who argue that, when a couple is engaged or has a deep friendship, then things are different and sexual relations are a legitimate expression of love. But the biblical view cannot be stretched to cover that concession. Paul considers the possibility that a couple may be aflame with passion for each other, and his one and only release from continence is marriage: "If they cannot exercise self-control, they should marry!" God not only created sexual desire, but he also created the perfect sphere for its gratification, marriage. And any attempt to alter his design is not only immoral before God, but destructive of personal relations and individual fulfillment.
This raises the next question: Why did God command that we find gratification for our sexual desires only in marriage? To the best of my knowledge, God does not give us a direct answer to this question in his Word, nor is he obligated to. Sometimes God leaves the wisdom of his commands for us to discover by experience. Those who disobey him discover it through tragedy. Those who obey discover it through patience and joy.
The way I have tried to understand God's wisdom and love in limiting sexual intercourse to marriage is by asking, "What is it that distinguishes marriage from all other heterosexual relations?" The biblical answer to that question is that marriage is distinguished from other chosen relationships by its permanence. Marriage is a commitment made for a lifetime, till death do us part. 1 Corinthians 7:39,
A wife is bound to her husband as long as he lives. If the husband dies, she is free to be married to whom she wishes, only in the Lord.
There is no other relationship between a man and a woman requiring that kind of permanent commitment. Therefore, in marriage God has designed a unique and stable and lasting relation for our most intimate expression of love. I believe experience confirms that something good and beautiful is lost from our sexual intimacy in marriage if we gave ourselves away outside that union. God can forgive that sin, but the scar he does not remove. The act will never be the same again. There is an inexpressible deepening of the union of marriage, which God intended, when a husband and wife can lie beside each other in perfect peace and freedom and say, "What I have just given you I have never given to another." I speak to those for whom it is not too late: Do not throw that away.
I find it helpful to use the analogy of Jesus' words in Matthew 7:6, "Don't cast your pearls before swine." It is possible to debase the truth by dispensing it willy-nilly. There are some truths that are too precious to be discussed in hostile, worldly settings. That's the way it is with our bodies, too. Nobody dispenses his bodily affections indiscriminately. You don't shake hands with all the people you nod to. You don't hug all the people you shake hands with. You don't kiss all the people you hug. And I would argue that there is a pearl of great value, a pearl of emotional, spiritual, physical intimacy, which can only be placed in one container without being debased and ruined, and that is the strong, permanent velvet-lined case of marriage. The unique, personal sexual fulfillment in the permanence of marriage for those who have kept themselves pure is one of the best explanations for why God limited the gratification of sexual desires to marriage.
The implication of all this for the single person with average sexual desires is not easy. Even if a person gets married in his early twenties, he is confronted with a preceding decade of sexual stress. And for those who remain single, whether by choice or not, the problem of handling sexual desires continues much longer. What help can we give to these people, among whom I include everybody from thirteen years on up who is unmarried and yet feels desires for sexual stimulation and gratification? My main burden for you in this category is that you glorify God in your bodies by keeping yourself free from any enslavement, except to God. In Romans 6:16 Paul said,
Do you not know that if you yield yourselves to anyone as obedient slaves, you are slaves of the one whom you obey, either of sin, which leads to death, or of obedience, which leads to righteousness?
And in 1 Corinthians 6:12 the proud Corinthian libertines said, "All things are lawful for me," but Paul responded, "Yet I will not be enslaved by anything." The meaning of that little interchange is that it is possible to be enslaved in the name of freedom. That is the situation in the world today. In the name of sexual freedom, we are a nation enslaved to our sexual cravings. If you want to know what a nation is hooked on, just observe what the media masters use to get and hold our attention. Sex sells everything. It sells movies, cars, furniture, clothes, booze, news, cigarettes, and sporting gear. Sex sells because we are a nation enslaved to the second, third, and fourth look at the body in the picture. But it shall not be so among you, because you have been set free from sin and are now enslaved to God. Therefore, glorify God by keeping yourself free from the enslaving forces of the world.
Ten Words of Counsel for Single People I have ten words of counsel for persons who are not married but who have to deal with sexual desires. Some of these have a masculine orientation because I know the male temptation firsthand but not the female. Some are dos and some are don'ts, but all aim to be positive in that they are intended to help you preserve your freedom from any enslavement but God's.
First, do not seek regular sexual gratification through masturbation, that is, the stimulation of your own self to sexual orgasm or climax. Masturbation does not solve sexual pressure for very long, it tends to become habitual, it produces guilt, and it contradicts the God-given design of sexuality. Our bodies and desires were designed for the sexual union of persons, and masturbation contradicts that design. But perhaps worst of all, masturbation is inevitably accompanied and enabled by sexual fantasies in the mind which we would not allow ourselves in reality and so we become like the Pharisees: well scrubbed on the outside, but inside full of perversions.
Second, do not seek sexual satisfaction through touching or being touched by another person, even if you stop short of sexual intercourse. Everyone knows that intimate touching is the prelude and preparation for sexual intercourse, and therefore it belongs where that event belongs, namely, in marriage. Where the permanent commitment that characterizes marriage is missing, caressing becomes depersonalized manipulation; it turns the other's body into a masturbation device to get a private physical thrill. God made us in such a way that if we try to turn that moment of touching into a personal, spiritual expression of love, we are not able to do it without making promises of faithfulness. Implicit in our hearts at that moment is the statement: You may touch me because you have promised never to leave me nor forsake me. You may have me because you are me. We are so made that we cry out for permanence when giving away our most intimate gifts. They belong in marriage.
Third, avoid unnecessary sexual stimulation. It doesn't take any brains to know that there are enough X-rated movie houses and adult bookstores in this city to keep a person livid 24 hours a day. To visit these crummy places is temptation enough. But the real test is what you do with the more legitimate sources of sexual stimulation. PG movies, Timemagazine, the newspaper, television, drugstore magazine racks, rock music lyrics. In our society you cannot escape sexual stimulation, but you can refuse to seek it. And you can avoid it often when you see it coming. This is the great test of whether we are enslaved or free—can we say no to the slave driver in our bodies who wants us to keep on looking and keep on lusting.
Fourth, when the stimulation comes and the desire starts to rise, perform a very conscious act of transfer onto Christ. I wish I had learned this much earlier in my life. While riding down the road, if some billboard or marquee puts a desire into my mind for some illegitimate sexual pleasure, I take that desire and say, "Jesus, you are my Lord and my God, and my greatest desire is to know and love and obey you, so this desire is really for you. I take it from your competitor, I purge it, and I direct it to you. Thank you for freeing me from the bondage of sin." It is remarkable what control we can gain over the direction our desires take, if we really long to please Christ.
Fifth, pray that God would give you, in ever-increasing strength, a longing to know and love and obey him above all else. I read a sermon once entitled, "The Expulsive Power of a New Affection." The point was, there is no better way to overcome a bad desire than to push it out with a new one. It is in prayer that we summon the divine help to produce in us that new desire for God.
Sixth, bathe your mind in God's Word. Jesus prayed, "Sanctify them in the truth. Your word is truth" (John 17:17). There is nothing that renews the mind and enables it to assess things God's way like regular meditation on the Word of God. The person who does not arm himself with the sword of the Spirit (Ephesians 6:17) is going to lose in the battle for his or her body.
Seventh, keep yourself busy, and when it is time for leisure, choose things that are pure, lovely, gracious, excellent, worthy of praise (Philippians 4:8). Idleness in a world like ours is asking for trouble. It is much harder for sexual temptation to gain a foothold when we are busy at some productive task. And if you need some fresh air, walk in a park, not down Hennepin Avenue.
Eighth, don't spend too much time alone. Be with Christian people often. Don't forsake the assembling of yourselves together, but encourage one another, stir each other up to love and good works. Talk of your struggles with trusted friends. Pray for each other and hold each other accountable.
Ninth, strive to think of all people, especially people of the opposite sex, in relation to eternity. It is not easy to fantasize about a person if you think about the eternal torment they may shortly be suffering in hell because of their unbelief. Nor is it easy to disrobe in your imagination a person you know to be an eternal sister or brother in Christ. Paul said in 2 Corinthians 5:16, "From now on we know no one according to the flesh." We view everybody from God's eternal perspective.
Finally, resolve to seek first the kingdom of God and his righteousness, and he will add to you everything you need sexually. It may be a spouse. It may be the grace and freedom to be single and pure and content. That is up to God. Ours is to seek the kingdom. Or to put it another way, our all-consuming passion must be to glorify God in our bodies by keeping ourselves free from every enslavement but one: the joyful, fulfilling slavery to God.
And he that searcheth the hearts knoweth what is the mind of the Spirit, because he maketh intercession for the saints according to the will of God (Romans 8:27). FOR OUR FOURTH POINT, let’s consider how “he maketh intercession for the saints according to the will of God.” As God’s dear children grow in grace, the greatest desire of the heart is for the Spirit’s enlightening of the heart and mind to know the will of God. We read in Hebrews 5 about babes in grace and that they desire the sincere milk of the word. Then there are young men in grace, and then there are fathers in grace, who have strong meat. As we grow in grace, we grow smaller and smaller and smaller within ourselves. We read in 1 Corinthians 13:11: “When I was a child, I spake as a child, I understood as a child, I thought as a child: but when I became a man, I put away childish things.” I want you to stop and picture something. A little child is always increasing. She is 1, and then pretty soon she is a big girl now. She is 2. She keeps growing and soon she says, I am going to go to school. Everything in the future is big and increasing. I am going to college. I am going to be ... Everything keeps gaining momentum. When we become men, we put away childish things. John the Baptist said in John 3:30: “He must increase, but I must decrease.” In Matthew 18:2-3, the Lord Jesus was speaking to His disciples as they asked who was going to be the greatest in the kingdom of heaven: “And Jesus called a little child unto him, and set him in the midst of them, And said, Verily I say unto you, Except ye be converted, and become as little children, ye shall not enter into the kingdom of heaven.” This means that except we become as a little child we cannot enter His service. We cannot enter His kingdom. We cannot come under the kingship of Christ unless we become as a little child. So, when I became a man, I put away childish things, and I started to grow in grace, and how did I grow? I grew smaller and smaller and smaller within myself. I started to hunger and thirst after the knowledge of the will of God. Now it is not such a big future anymore that I have all figured out for myself. Now my future is: Lord, what is your will? How often our heart has to go out to the Lord and say, Lord, give me the wisdom to know your will, and the grace to do your will. As we grow in grace, we have a longing desire to know the will of God. Why? We hate evil. We love God. We become as a little child. A little child can sit at the table with no concerns about who is going to pay the taxes or the light bill or any of the expenses, or where the food comes from that is on the table. They have a childlike faith, trusting that their father has put it there. It never enters their minds where it comes from. When you and I truly become as a little child and have childlike faith, then we begin trusting the Lord, and we see that He makes provision for us. Then we do not worry so much about the things of this life. Now we are maturing into a full-grown father in grace, and that is called eating the meat. We come to the point that we become as that little child. In Psalm 143:10, I want you to take notice of the breathing of the heart of the man of God: “Teach me to do thy will; for thou art my God: thy spirit is good; lead me into the land of uprightness.” How did he know that His Spirit is good? The Spirit teaches him the mind of God. When the Holy Spirit begins to intercede in our hearts according to the will of God, then the cry of our hearts becomes like we read from David in this psalm. Verse 10 shows that childlike spirit wanting to be taught. He understood that Spirit of God in the desire to do the will of God. Now watch the next verse: “Quicken me, O LORD, for thy name’s sake: for thy righteousness’ sake bring my soul out of trouble.” Now he is starting to hunger and thirst after the knowledge of His will. That is as we grow in grace. As we become more mature in grace that becomes our food by night and day. Then it is our prayer constantly to seek the Lord’s will, not to have Him snap to do our will. He sometimes sends adversity, and we should pray, Lord, give me submission to this, not deliver me from it. Give me to be able to glorify you in the fire. In that tribulation, in that furnace of affliction, give me to be able to do what is for your glory, not being concerned about ourselves. We ask, What is His will? David said in a prophetic way in Psalm 40:6: “Sacrifice and offering thou didst not desire; mine ears hast thou opened: burnt offering and sin offering hast thou not required.” He is maturing. He is becoming mature in Christianity, in godliness, in the fear of the Lord. Continuing in verses 7 and 8 we read: “Then said I, Lo, I come: in the volume of the book it is written of me, I delight to do thy will, O my God: yea, thy law is within my heart.” He was prophesying of the Lord Jesus Christ. We now become conformed to the Lord Jesus Christ. That becomes the central desire of the heart. When the Holy Spirit intercedes and comes with the word of sanctification in our heart, now it is a constant desire to do the will of God. Then we say with the psalmist: Teach me your will. Open my understanding to understand what would be your will. His law is written in our hearts, not on tables of stone, but on the fleshly tables of our hearts. It is our total desire to do what is pleasing to the Lord. I am not primarily seeking heaven. I am not primarily trying to find a way to escape hell. What I want to do is please the Lord. I want to do what He created me for, and that is to live to His glory. That becomes my primary concern. If you were one of my children, the fact that you are one of my children is what makes it that you now dwell in my home. If we are one of God’s children, and if we truly fear the Lord, then we will dwell with Him. That is how we go to heaven. It is that we have been adopted into the family of God. That adoption is through the Lord Jesus Christ, primarily and first through His obedience. As Christ’s obedience is imputed and imparted to us, we become conformed to the image of Christ. We now have that same Christlike spirit. That spirit, that mind of Christ, becomes our desire. David’s ears were opened (verse 6) to hear the will of God, that he could discern it. When his ears were opened to hear the will of God, his mouth was opened to preach it. I want you to see this in verse 9: “I have preached righteousness in the great congregation: lo, I have not refrained my lips, O LORD, thou knowest.” How do we preach the righteousness of God? Until we start preaching with our heals, we do not have to start with our lips. I visited with a brother the other night. I said: When a person comes to me and wants to give me his testimony and a big profession of what a Christian he is, I do not even want to hear it unless his life corresponds with it. If his life does not correspond with it, it is mockery to make such a big profession. Until our heart has been renewed, until we have a new desire, until it is our chief and most longing desire to do the will of God, we do not have anything to talk about. If we still cherish sin, if we still cherish the things of the flesh, we have nothing to preach about. The prophet Isaiah spoke of receiving the tongue of the learned after his ear had been awakened to hear. I want you to see the chronology of this. We first receive the ear to hear. In other words, we become teachable. We come to the point where we have a new desire, and it is our desire to do the will of God before we can teach it. We read in Isaiah 50:4: “The Lord GOD hath given me the tongue of the learned, that I should know how to speak a word in season to him that is weary: he wakeneth morning by morning, he wakeneth mine ear to hear as the learned.” When He awakens our ears to hear, we are able to speak a word in season. Until I have learned to listen, I do not have anything that I can tell that is to the Lord’s glory. As we see from our text, this principle applies to prayer as well. Notice Romans 8:27: “And he that searcheth the hearts knoweth what is the mind of the Spirit, because he maketh intercession for the saints according to the will of God.” He searches the heart. That is first. Our minds have to be in conformity with the mind of the Spirit. Now He gives us what to speak so we can enter into prayer from the heart. It is not just reciting a prayer out of a prayer book. A sigh, a groan. One or two words from the heart is more prayer than a whole hour of reciting fluent words all from the head. The more we have received of an ear to hear the will of God the more we will receive of the tongue of the Spirit to intercede for us. John 15:7 says: “If ye abide in me, and my words abide in you, ye shall ask what ye will, and it shall be done unto you.” If we have learned to hear, and His words abide in us, we will be able to use our tongues to bring forth a prayer, a petition, that the Lord will be willing to hear. We have heard with a spiritual ear. We have had that penetrate our hearts. As our ear to hear God’s will grows into the exercise of saving faith by showing love to our neighbor, in just that same proportion we receive the tongue of the learned in prayer. The Lord Jesus Christ says in Matthew 7:24: “Therefore whosoever heareth these sayings of mine, and doeth them, I will liken him unto a wise man, which built his house upon a rock.” In verse 26, He says: “And every one that heareth these sayings of mine, and doeth them not, shall be likened unto a foolish man, which built his house upon the sand.” The hearing is the spiritual hearing. It is the ear of that intercessory prayer of the Spirit, and now the words that come forth after we understand the will of God are the words that are given us by the Spirit. As our ear to hear grows into the exercise of saving faith, it is by showing love to our neighbor. I can come before the Lord and ask Him to forgive me and to show mercy, and the first thing that happens when the Holy Spirit really comes to intercede is that He opens my understanding and brings me into the court of my conscience. You are asking for mercy. Have you shown mercy? I am going to give you the exact same mercy you have shown. You are asking me to forgive you, but as the Lord’s prayer says, He forgives as I forgive: “For if ye forgive men their trespasses, your heavenly Father will also forgive you:
But if ye forgive not men their trespasses, neither will your Father forgive your trespasses” (Matthew 6:14-15). We want to notice that hearing comes first. We have to learn to hear the will of God. I want you to see how this ties in with showing love to our neighbor. We receive the tongue of the learned in prayer in the same proportion that we extend ourselves to our neighbor. We read about acceptable prayer and fasting in Isaiah 58:7-9: “Is it not to deal thy bread to the hungry, and that thou bring the poor that are cast out to thy house? when thou seest the naked, that thou cover him; and that thou hide not thyself from thine own flesh? Then shall thy light break forth as the morning, and thine health shall spring forth speedily: and thy righteousness shall go before thee; the glory of the LORD shall be thy rereward. Then shalt thou call, and the LORD shall answer; thou shalt cry, and he shall say, Here I am. If thou take away from the midst of thee the yoke, the putting forth of the finger, and speaking vanity.” See how this becomes effectual prayer—when our footsteps begin to correspond with the will of God. We read in Luke 11:1: “And it came to pass, that, as he was praying in a certain place, when he ceased, one of his disciples said unto him, Lord, teach us to pray, as John also taught his disciples.” The prayers of the Lord Jesus Christ were effectual because He delighted in the will of the Father. He said: I know that you hear me always. This was because He was without sin. He never had sinned, and the Father heard Him always. When the disciples heard Him pray, they asked Him: Lord, teach us to pray. In the Lord’s prayer, Jesus taught us what our priorities must be in prayer, that is, what we are to ask for ahead of any personal desires. When you and I come to lay our petitions before the Lord, we must to it in the proper order, with a proper set of priorities. We read in Matthew 6:9-10: “After this manner therefore pray ye: Our Father which art in heaven, Hallowed be thy name. Thy kingdom come. Thy will be done in earth, as it is in heaven.” The Lord is telling them the manner of prayer. Our first desire is to hallow and glorify the name of the Father. Then, we express that we want to come under His kingship. We get back to the same prayer that David prayed: Teach me your will. After we have petitioned for the knowledge of His will and that His kingdom might come and that His will might be done in earth as it is in heaven, then we may ask for our own needs. This shows us the priorities in prayer as the Lord Jesus taught His disciples to pray. We need to pray in a manner in which the glory of God is our first thought. The second is that His will be made known. When the Holy Spirit makes intercession in our hearts, our prayers will be in the right priority. The first and uppermost thought in our hearts is to seek His will. As we become conformed to the image of Christ, our first priority is to honor our heavenly Father by doing His will, and to do His will, our first petition has to be: Lord, what is your will? He intercedes in our heart, giving us a hunger and a desire after righteousness, after doing the will of God. Watch what the Lord Jesus said in Matthew 26:42: “He went away again the second time, and prayed, saying, O my Father, if this cup may not pass away from me, except I drink it, thy will be done.” Can we pray for His will to be done even if it means the crucifying of our flesh? This is what we need to understand if we are going to have the Holy Spirit interceding for us, giving us prayer that is acceptable before God. When we have received the ear of the learned to hear the will of God, the Spirit intercedes in our hearts to pray for wisdom to know the revealed will of God and grace to do His will. I want you to see something. There is a difference between the secret and the revealed will of God. We read in Deuteronomy 29:29: “The secret things belong unto the LORD our God: but those things which are revealed belong unto us and to our children for ever, that we may do all the words of this law.” We are not to pray that the Lord reveal His secret will to us. We want to know His revealed will. I heard this scripture recited a thousand times as a young man and never realized the last part of that verse until I really started studying it in my own Bible. It says: “That we may do all the words of this law.” The Lord reveals His revealed will because that is what He wants us to do. We are not to meddle with His secret will. I am not to sit back and say, Well, if the Lord loved me from eternity, and if I am elect and I am going to be saved, then I am going to sit here and wait until the Lord saves me. Then I am venturing into His secret will. His revealed will is “that we may do all the words of this law.” I must do that even if I must spend eternity in hell. If His secret will is that He is going to save me or if His secret will is that He is not going to save me is not what I should be prying into. What I should be prying into is, Lord, what is your revealed will, and His revealed will is “that we may do all the words of this law.” The Spirit never intercedes in our behalf to pry into the secret will of God. The religion of many people I know of is wrapped around: if I am elect, and if, if, if, prying into the secret will of God. You know, the Lord keeps it secret because He has His revealed will that He wants us to obey. If I knew the secret will of God, and I knew that God has foreordained that I am going to spend eternity with Him in heaven, and I cherish sin, what is going to pull me away from sin? However, if I do not know His secret will, and I am not making that my main objective, I am looking at His revealed will. He says that I should love my neighbor. He says that I should do these things that He has revealed in His will, and now my prayer is Lord, what is your will, not what is your secret will, but what is your revealed will? What will you have me to do? I want you to see God’s revealed will for Nineveh. We see in the history of Jonah and Nineveh a beautiful illustration of how displeasing it is to the Lord and how wretchedly wicked it is to try to pry into and make our decisions on the basis of God’s secret will. It is a horrible sin. We read in Jonah 3:2: “Arise, go unto Nineveh, that great city, and preach unto it the preaching that I bid thee.” This was His revealed will. We read in verses 3 and 4: “So Jonah arose, and went unto Nineveh, according to the word of the LORD. Now Nineveh was an exceeding great city of three days’ journey. And Jonah began to enter into the city a day's journey, and he cried, and said, Yet forty days, and Nineveh shall be overthrown.” This was God’s revealed will for Nineveh. His secret will was that they were going to repent, and He was going to save them, but He did not tell Jonah: You run down the street and tell them that as soon as they repent, I will save them, because I have already predetermined that they are going to repent, and I am going to save them. They would never have repented. The revealed will of God that Jonah had to bring forward was: “Yet forty days, and Nineveh shall be overthrown.” Now, I want you to understand. He did not preach the gospel to them. The doctrine of repentance was not preached to them. They were not even told to repent, and I want to tell you why. The Lord Jesus Christ uses that to illustrate the rebellion of the Christian nation. He says, A greater than Jonah is here, and Nineveh repented at the preaching of Jonah. What He is saying is: He did not even preach repentance. He just preached: “Yet forty days, and Nineveh shall be overthrown.” That was His revealed will, and they acted on it. They believed it. It was through preaching God’s revealed will that His secret will was accomplished. When Jonah preached: “Yet forty days, and Nineveh shall be overthrown,” the people of Nineveh believed God and fasted as we see in Jonah 3:5-9: “So the people of Nineveh believed God, and proclaimed a fast, and put on sackcloth, from the greatest of them even to the least of them. For word came unto the king of Nineveh, and he arose from his throne, and he laid his robe from him, and covered him with sackcloth, and sat in ashes. And he caused it to be proclaimed and published through Nineveh by the decree of the king and his nobles, saying, Let neither man nor beast, herd nor flock, taste any thing: let them not feed, nor drink water: But let man and beast be covered with sackcloth, and cry mightily unto God: yea, let them turn every one from his evil way, and from the violence that is in their hands. Who can tell if God will turn and repent, and turn away from his fierce anger, that we perish not?” If Jonah had preached the secret will of God that He was not going to destroy Nineveh at the end of forty days, they would not have repented. So, the Lord performed His secret will by the preaching of His revealed will. It is a great sin to rebel against God’s revealed will through speculation of His secret will. This is what Jonah did. He was speculating on the secret will and acted on it instead of the revealed will. This is happening in many churches today. They speculate on the secret will of God and therefore continue in sin that grace may abound. I want you to see in Jonah 4:1: “But it displeased Jonah exceedingly, and he was very angry.” He was displeased that they repented, and the Lord did not overthrow them. He was displeased that what he preached did not happen. We read in verses 2 and 3: “And he prayed unto the LORD, and said, I pray thee, O LORD, was not this my saying, when I was yet in my country? Therefore I fled before unto Tarshish: for I knew that thou art a gracious God, and merciful, slow to anger, and of great kindness, and repentest thee of the evil. Therefore now, O LORD, take, I beseech thee, my life from me; for it is better for me to die than to live.” Jonah speculated, and that is why he fled and did not go to do what he was told to do. He speculated on the secret will of God. So how are we to come to the knowledge of God’s revealed will? We are not to pry into God’s secret will. We must act on His revealed will. Jesus said in John 5:39: “Search the scriptures; for in them ye think ye have eternal life: and they are they which testify of me.” If we are to pray according to His will, the first thing I want to bring to our attention according to the revealed will of God is: “Search the scriptures; for in them ye think ye have eternal life: and they are they which testify of me.” I want to show you what happens. There are thousands of denominations, and they each have their own interpretation of the Bible, and millions are being deceived into hell with a Bible in their hands. This happens because they are not searching the Scriptures for themselves, and they believe what someone told them. They are listening to someone’s interpretation, and they are not searching the Scriptures for the will of God. I talked to a brother just the other evening. Yeah, you sure opened my eyes, he said. That is something I never noticed. All you have to do is read the Scriptures. It is there. There is grave danger in relying on some powerful preacher, or church traditions and doctrine, instead of searching the Scriptures. I know of a young man who had his own mechanics shop, but he heard about some powerful preacher in Texas, so he gave away everything, took all of his things out of the house, disposed of them, got in a car, and headed for Texas. Had he stopped to study the Word of God, he would not have had to run behind any powerful preacher. It says, Search the Scriptures. We have church traditions, and they are not the will of God. We need to search the Word of God for His will. I want you to see what it says in 2 Timothy 4:3-4: “For the time will come when they will not endure sound doctrine; but after their own lusts shall they heap to themselves teachers, having itching ears; And they shall turn away their ears from the truth, and shall be turned unto fables.” The Holy Spirit gives you the ear to hear the truth, and where is it to be found? In the Word of God. When we have some authority that is a higher authority than the Word of God, then we have itching ears. They will not endure sound doctrine. They do not want the truth. They all claim to preach the Word of God. This one has this interpretation, and that one has that interpretation. My Bible has never authorized one human being on the face of the earth to ever interpret the Word of God. It says read the Scriptures. It does not say interpret. God’s Word declares that it is noble to confirm what is preached—even if it is preached by one of Christ’s true apostles—by searching the Scriptures to see if those things are so. If you take everything I tell you and never go back into the Word of God to confirm whether it is the Word of God, you are not wise. I try to just literally unfold the Word, but you are still not wise if you are relying on a person instead of the Word. The Word is the authority. You must never sit under the proclamation of any preacher without going back to confirm that the Word says what he says. You start searching the Scriptures and the will of God starts unfolding because you will find verses before and after the ones I have cited that the Lord may use to turn on the greatest light for you. No person can unfold the fullness of the Word. It is not granted to human tongue to do that. These blessings are conveyed in the searching of the Scriptures. The Lord Jesus Christ had a reason for saying, Search the Scriptures. It is in the Word of God that there is power. I want you to see how that in the days of the apostles, the men of Berea were noble. We read in Acts 17:10-12: “And the brethren immediately sent away Paul and Silas by night unto Berea: who coming thither went into the synagogue of the Jews. These were more noble than those in Thessalonica, in that they received the word with all readiness of mind, and searched the scriptures daily, whether those things were so. Therefore many of them believed; also of honourable women which were Greeks, and of men, not a few.” They were under the preaching of one of the apostles of Jesus Christ, but they did not just take it for granted. Well, after all, he is sent by the Lord, so what he says is true. No, they searched the Scriptures to confirm it. The connecting word therefore shows that because of this many of them believed. See the blessedness that the Lord brought upon the church of Berea because those men obeyed, and they searched the Scriptures and found that what was preached to them was so. The Lord blessed it, and many believed. It is because they searched the Scriptures and found that these things were so that they had the ear of the learned to hear. Those who have not received the ear of the learned to hear what the Spirit says to the churches would not hear God’s precious will even if God would send one of their loved ones from the pit of hell to testify of God’s will. You might say that if a man I knew personally, and I saw him buried, and all of a sudden that man came back to me and started saying, I came right out of the pit of hell and I come to warn you: Be careful. That is real. It is genuine, you would say, That would scare anyone straight, would it not? The Word of God says no. It says that if you will not hear my word, you would not hear that either. Why would we believe a man had come out of hell and started preaching to us if we will not hear: Thus saith the Lord? I want to read that to you right out of Luke 16:27-29: “Then he said, I pray thee therefore, father, that thou wouldest send him to my father's house: For I have five brethren; that he may testify unto them, lest they also come into this place of torment. Abraham saith unto him, They have Moses and the prophets; let them hear them.” “Moses and the prophets” means they have the law of God, and they have the inspired teachings of the gospel. That word prophets means all inspired teaching. In other words, let them search the Scriptures, and if they refuse to do that, and they refuse to hear me, they will not listen to you either. Continuing in verses 30 and 31 we read: “And he said, Nay, father Abraham: but if one went unto them from the dead, they will repent. And he said unto him, If they hear not Moses [that is, the revealed will of God] and the prophets [that is, the inspired teaching of the gospel], neither will they be persuaded, though one rose from the dead.” Do you see why it is important for us to search the Scriptures? The Spirit gives us the ear of the learned to know the will of God, and if that is not where our hungering desire is, we would not hear if the Lord did send one out of the grave. Searching the Scriptures is more than a mere casual reading of it as a literal book for our own interpretation. In 2 Timothy 3:7 we read: “Ever learning, and never able to come to the knowledge of the truth.” We can read it as a literal book. We can read it with a closed mind, with a hard heart. Verse 8 says: “Now as Jannes and Jambres withstood Moses, so do these also resist the truth: men of corrupt minds, reprobate concerning the faith.” They resist the truth because they do not love the truth, so they start interpreting the truth, and when they get done they can make 1 Timothy 2 tell you they can put a lesbian in the pulpit. Yet, the Word clearly says no. They do not love the truth, and therefore they withstand the truth even as those whom the earth swallowed alive. They do not desire to know the truth. They hear what they want to hear, and if it does not say that they will twist it until it does, so they can say, This is what I believe. Reprobatemeans devoid of sound judgment. The Lord has blinded their minds so they do not understand because they did not desire to understand. These who are never able to come to the knowledge of the truth are those who never learned to love the truth. They never understood what it was to desire to know. We read in 2 Timothy 3:1-5: “This know also, that in the last days perilous times shall come. For men shall be lovers of their own selves, covetous, boasters, proud, blasphemers, disobedient to parents, unthankful, unholy, Without natural affection, trucebreakers, false accusers, incontinent, fierce, despisers of those that are good, Traitors, heady, highminded, lovers of pleasures more than lovers of God; Having a form of godliness, but denying the power thereof: from such turn away.” These are men of religion. They are religious people, and they do not have a grain of religion that is pleasing to the Lord. They have every trait and every element of violating the second table of the law, but they still have a form of religion. How are they denying the power of godliness? Godliness is to love God above all with your heart, your soul and your mind. They are denying the power of it, which would have a tendency to give you to love your neighbor as yourself. If you really love God above all, you would automatically love your neighbor as yourself because God has so commanded you. All these violations of the second table of the law, and they still claim to be religious, but this is the perilous time that shall come in the last days. When the Holy Spirit intercedes to help us know the will of God, it becomes our highest desire and our chiefest prayer, Lord, what is your will? To thousands who think they are searching the Scriptures, it is but a sealed book because their eye of faith is not fixed upon Christ. They are going to become some authority in themselves, or they are searching the Scriptures with a selfish motive. They are not searching the Scriptures to find out what is the will of God, but they are searching the Scriptures to see how they can escape the consequences of sin. That is the motive, but the motive must be searching to find the will of God so we may do it. In 2 Corinthians 3:12-14 we read: “Seeing then that we have such hope, we use great plainness of speech: And not as Moses, which put a vail over his face, that the children of Israel could not stedfastly look to the end of that which is abolished: But their minds were blinded: for until this day remaineth the same vail untaken away in the reading of the old testament; which vail is done away in Christ.” That veil which comes over the eyes, that form of religion that is only for the sake of religion, is done away when the eyes are fixed on Christ. When Christ becomes our pattern, when Christ becomes the object of our love, when Christ becomes the object of our faith, then that veil is taken away. We begin to realize that Christ is preached from Genesis 1 through Revelation 22, and if our eyes are not fixed on Christ, then we have a veil over our eyes. The Lord Jesus Christ came to do the will of God, and if we have our eyes fixed on Christ, we start to understand what is said in John 14:6: “Jesus saith unto him, I am the way, the truth, and the life: no man cometh unto the Father, but by me.” There is no way to the Lord outside of Christ. So, we have to search for Christ in the reading of the Scriptures, and He is all the way through the Old Testament as well as the New Testament. So we search the Scriptures because “they are they which testify of me” (John 5:39), and He was talking about the Old Testament. The New Testament was not yet written. As the Holy Spirit begins to make intercession in our hearts “according to the will of God,” we will learn the prayer of David in Psalm 119:18: “Open thou mine eyes, that I may behold wondrous things out of thy law.” The law of God, if we understand it properly, points us to Christ because Christ came to fulfill the law. If we rightly see the law we have to see it as having been fulfilled in Christ. See the venting of the heart of the man after God’s own heart as the Holy Spirit intercedes in prayer “according to the will of God.” I want you to look at Psalm 119:142: “Thy righteousness is an everlasting righteousness, and thy law is the truth.” The Lord Jesus says: I am the truth. See where we find the Lord Jesus in the law. Verse 143 says: “Trouble and anguish have taken hold on me: yet thy commandments are my delights.” This is true even if it crucifies my flesh to keep His law. We read in verses 144 to 146: “The righteousness of thy testimonies is everlasting: give me understanding, and I shall live. I cried with my whole heart; hear me, O LORD: I will keep thy statutes. I cried unto thee; save me, and I shall keep thy testimonies.” See how the breathings of the heart under trial is a longing desire: Lord, show me your will. Help me to understand your will. These prayers were the fruit of David having his eye of faith fixed upon his blessed Redeemer’s reverence for His Father’s will. Christ is in this, and that is what we must learn to see so it does not become a Pharisaical law religion. It is the spirit of the law, a desire to do out of a motive of love, a desire to do that which is pleasing unto the Lord. I want you to see how these very prayers of David were prophetic in themselves. These prayers were the fruit of having his eyes fixed on his blessed Redeemer and His reverence for the Father’s will. In this longing desire to do the will of the Father, he saw the Redeemer’s desire and how the Father would be so glorified in Christ’s obedience. I want you to see this in Hebrews 10:7-9: “Then said I, Lo, I come (in the volume of the book it is written of me,) to do thy will, O God. Above when he said, Sacrifice and offering and burnt offerings and offering for sin thou wouldest not, neither hadst pleasure therein; which are offered by the law; Then said he, Lo, I come to do thy will, O God. He taketh away the first, that he may establish the second.” This was the heart cry of David. In a prophetic way, in his meditations and his prayers before the Lord, David cited those very same words. Now, in Hebrews, it is written about Christ: “In the volume of the book it is written of me.” In other words, it was prophesied of me. We read from David in Psalm 40:6-9: “Sacrifice and offering thou didst not desire; mine ears hast thou opened: burnt offering and sin offering hast thou not required. Then said I, Lo, I come: in the volume of the book it is written of me, I delight to do thy will, O my God: yea, thy law is within my heart.” When David vented that in his heart before the Lord, he did so with his eyes on Christ. That is what we have to learn to understand as we search the Scriptures. Our searching is to be with our eyes on Christ and to see how Christ is the center of the Word, that Christ is the Word. That is what we read in John 1: And the Word was made flesh, and the Word was God. Christ is the Word. Our text says in Romans 8:27: “And he that searcheth the hearts knoweth what is the mind of the Spirit, because he maketh intercession for the saints according to the will of God.” When the Holy Spirit instills spiritual prayer in our hearts, the words, the longing desires, the prayer of the heart, centers in the will of God. That is true intercession of the Spirit: when the will of God becomes our chiefest and highest desire, anything that will honor and glorify God and that will accomplish His will.
“And David was greatly distressed; for the people spake of stoning him, because the soul of all the people was grieved, every man for his sons and for his daughters: but David encouraged himself in the LORD his God.” 1 SA 30:6. David's faith faltered. In 1 SA 27:1 it says, “And David said in his heart, I shall now perish one day by the hand of Saul: there is nothing better for me than that I should speedily escape into the land of the Philistines; and Saul shall despair of me, to seek me any more in any coast of Israel: so shall I escape out of his hand.” David had been anointed king; he knew he would be king, but look how his human reasoning came against him. He had to run from the hand of Saul and ran into the land of the Philistines. That was where he sought safety. But what happened to him in the land of the Philistines? Ziklag was burned with fire. The Lord used that fire to drive David out of the Philistine’s land. Right in the extremity of David’s life was the turning point when he became king. When he left Ziklag he went to Hebron and was anointed king. That was where the fulfillment of that impossible promise took place. His own men had talked of stoning him, but in such extremity he turned back and strengthened himself in the Lord. In 1 SA 30:6 we read, “And David was greatly distressed; for the people spake of stoning him, because the soul of all the people was grieved, every man for his sons and for his daughters: but David encouraged himself in the LORD his God.” That was when David’s faith was restored: at the point of all human impossibility, when it became absolutely impossible and his own men had turned against him, he “encouraged himself in the LORD,” and He gave David supernatural strength. He went in the strength of his faith. We see in 1 SA 30:4, “Then David and the people that were with him lifted up their voice and wept, until they had no more power to weep.” David and his men had so worn themselves out that “they had no more power to weep.” They were exasperated and at the end of their strength. They had wept until “they had no more power to weep.” 1 SA 30:10 says, “But David pursued, he and four hundred men: for two hundred abode behind, which were so faint that they could not go over the brook Besor.” Why did he go with four hundred instead of six hundred men? Two hundred were so faint they were not able to cross the brook! Stop and think about how David was so worn and weak, but then he went forth in supernatural strength. He pursued them all that night. The next morning he came upon the camp where they had taken the spoil. It says in 1 SA 30:17, “And David smote them from the twilight even unto the evening of the next day: and there escaped not a man of them, save four hundred young men, which rode upon camels, and fled.” After two hundred men were so faint that they could not cross the brook, David, with four hundred men, still traveled all night, came upon the army just at the break of day, and fought hand to hand for thirty-six hours! See the absolute human impossibility. See the supernatural strength the Lord gave David and those four hundred men and how they gained the victory and brought the spoil. They went from there to Hebron where David became king. Do you see how the Lord brings us through such human impossibilities? Faith was bright. By faith, David had such strength, but when he fled from the land of Israel, he said, “I shall now perish one day by the hand of Saul.” He was using human reasoning. True faith is such a pillar and gives such strength that we can go where it is humanly impossible to go. Amen. I am trusting Thee, Lord Jesus, Trusting only Thee; Trusting Thee for full salvation, Great and free. I am trusting Thee to guide me; Thou alone shalt lead, Every day and hour supplying All my need. I am trusting Thee, Lord Jesus; Never let me fall; I am trusting Thee for ever, And for all. Frances R. Havergal, 1874
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